Make a personal connection today
Normally, I work 40-45 hours a week at my day job, and another 30 hours a week or so at my church, delivering spiritual counseling. As you can imagine, my time with my family comes at a heavy premium.
This week I’ve been off from my work with my church, enjoying some much-needed R&R and time with my kids. Yesterday, while I was playing with my son in the pool in our apartment complex, I noticed another kid playing by himself, while his mother sat in a lounge chair, texting for several minutes. After playing with my son for several more minutes, I again noticed the mother, who was now reading a book.
The entire half hour we were there, I think she said maybe 2 sentences to her son. She divided her time between her phone and her book. At first, it made me sad that she thought so little of the time she had with her son that she didn’t feel the need or desire to play or interact with him. On the other hand, it reaffirmed the gratitude that I felt for the time I did have with my son. I haven’t always felt this way; nor have I truly appreciated the gifts that I do have.
In our society, we are so inundated with communication from TV, magazines, text messages, email and elsewhere that we tend to zone out a bit. Personal, one-on-one communication is becoming a lost art. Several years ago, I was at a restaurant on Friday night. I noticed a group of 5 people at a table. What struck me was, every one of them was talking on a cell phone. There were five friends out together on a Friday night, yet none of them were really there! And that was before texting and email were readily available on smartphones. Now, it’s common to see people completely oblivious to the outside world; faces transfixed at a screen about 2 feet in front of their eyes, frantically tapping out messages.
Take some time today to physically talk to someone; as in, stand in front of them and communicate. Put down the phone, ipad, etc. Shut of the TV and computer. Close your magazine or 50 Shades of Grey (or other book). Have an actual, human, face-to-face interaction with someone. Play with your kids. Enjoy someone else’s company. If you find it difficult to do, don’t worry. Instead, see it as a sign that you need to practice this much more often.
As Farris Bueller once said, “life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”
Posted on August 3, 2012, in Business, Marketing, News, Uncategorized and tagged advice, communication, fun, marketing, personalize, positive news, positive thinking, spiritual, Success. Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.